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Monday, June 27, 2016

Camp Luther--WV Flooding

I've been going to camp since I was in 3rd grade, with the exception of my college years.  It is my home away from home.  It's ever unchanging, peaceful, and serene. It's no ordinary summer camp; it's Camp Luther.  It is where thousands of kids have learned about God's grace and love over the past 71 years.  It's where strangers from across the state and country become family over the course of a week.  It is where people go to experience "IT".  Camp is where we learn to focus on how to share God's love to those around us and develop a closer relationship with Him.

No week is ever the same as the one before when we're at camp, and this year was definitely not the exception.  Tuesday brought the rain--storms like I'd never seen at camp before.  Don't get me wrong, over the course of nearly 20 years at camp, it's rained plenty.  Some years that's all it does.  But these storms caused the cancellation of afternoon activities and kept our kids hunkered down in the buildings they were in for hours.  (They didn't mind though; I heard multiple accounts from kids that said they liked that it gave them the opportunity to get to know more people.)

Our creek after Tuesday's storms turned from a nice trickle through the camp to something a bit larger. This wasn't a huge deal; it just meant cancelling some activities like the Creek Stomp.



Wednesday was a really nice day! We hosted our annual Hot Dog Roast, but decided to have an indoor picnic with it since the ground was wet from the day before.  The kids had a blast as they ate their hot dogs and watched videos of our sports and nature reports from the day.


Throughout the week we'd been focusing on "The Jesus Way".  Our themes each day up through Wednesday included feeding, forgiving, and loving your neighbor. Thursday's theme was serving humbly.  We began the day with a great message about what it means to serve, thinking about our purpose behind why we serve, and what it means to be humble.

As the day wore on, the chance of rain grew greater and greater.  Our kiddos went to their regular classes in the morning, and by the time lunch was over, the storms started to settle in.  Campers either went to the craft cabin, our gathering hall to play games, or to their cabins.  Despite the rain, everyone was in high spirits!

The rains continued throughout the afternoon and our campers continued doing various activities that the staff planned out for them.  It was really just another typical (but rainy) day at camp.  Behind the scenes though, our fearless leaders were making plans for how to proceed as the radar continued to show more and more rain headed our way.  Unbeknownst to the kids, the creek began to flood, and conditions weren't looking that great.
Our fearless leaders determining what to do next.





















By the time supper rolled around, it had been determined that we were going to evacuate.  We had to safely get all of our campers to the dining hall for supper and proceed from there.  As campers who'd been waiting in the Bull Pen came down the road, they linked arms as they crossed the flooded street and moved on toward the dining hall.  Everyone was so brave and calm as they worked toward getting to safety!  Emergency management arrived at the camp to help start the evacuation, and once campers had eaten supper, they were loaded onto school buses and transported down the road.




Because campers didn't know that we were evacuating camp when they arrived at the dining hall for supper, they didn't have time to pack supplies.  (This, of course, was for safety reasons. We needed to get out as soon as possible.)  So upon arriving at our new destination, Emmanuel Assembly of God, we were soaked and empty handed.  This didn't dampen the spirit of camp though.  I think to many of the campers, it was a fun "field trip" while at camp.  We had program meetings, 5 o'clock news, and continued our camp plans.  The intermediates and seniors even got to have their annual Thursday night dance!

Throughout the evening, I waited by the front door to greet community members who stopped by to drop off donations.  This. Was. Incredible.  I truly don't have words to describe the outpouring we received by the community.  These people--people whose own homes were flooding or at risk of flooding--were leaving home and bringing us their own goods.  They donated blankets, pillows, clothes, food, drinks, and toiletries--bags upon bags upon bags of them.  Truck loads of them.  One lady made TWO trips of truckloads of items!  Another lady commented that she was sorry that all she brought were towels because the dollar store (the only store in the community) had SOLD OUT of blankets and pillows.  We had bag fulls of toothbrushes and deodorant, bags of washcloths, bags of socks, cases upon cases of water and crackers and other snacks.  I stood, fighting back tears of gratefulness, as each person made their trip into the church with more and more goods for our 360 campers and staff.  Again, it was incredible.



That night, everyone nestled somewhere in the church and attempted to sleep after an incredibly emotionally draining day.  We packed the sanctuary, hallways, and Sunday school rooms with campers sharing blankets, pillows, pews, and spaces on the floor.  This was the most humbling experience I've ever had.  As I sat on the floor in my still-wet shorts, short sleeve shirt, and flip flops, I began to start feeling the cold settle in.  I managed to find a pair of boys socks that fit half of my foot and two little boys shirts that hadn't been claimed.  I pulled the shirts up over part of my legs and tried to find comfort on the floor.  For hours, I could feel myself start to drift off to sleep only to be awoken by my own shivering or discomfort.  Between near constant prayers throughout the night, I kept finding myself thinking, this is silly; why don't we just go back to our beds? or why don't I just go grab a blanket and pillow? only to remember that we couldn't go back and we didn't have any more blankets or pillows.  Over and over I would think about the homeless, the refugees, and the people in West Virginia who were undoubtedly going to be affected by this flood who experience this feeling regularly.  I knew that our situation was only temporary. Only one--maybe two--nights of being displaced, being cold, and being uncomfortable, and then I'd be home in my warm house, comfortable bed, and dry clothes.  I give thanks to God daily for these things, but I'd never actually thought about what it'd be like without them.  I wondered to myself, how could I be so selfish--so ungrateful? I couldn't wait for there to be daylight so that I could just get up and do something instead of sitting, waiting for the hours to pass and the night to end.

Finally, it was daylight.  I grabbed my camera and ventured outside for the first time since we arrived at Emmanuel Assembly and the rains stopped.


Once everyone began to wake up, we ate breakfast, had morning worship, and the kids went to classes.  Throughout the afternoon, parents began to arrive to pick up their kids (a day earlier than they typically go home).  We continued camp even though we weren't at our home--the perfect example that camp isn't a place; it's within us.

On the way home, I finally had the opportunity to see what it was like outside.  The water had receded, but we could clearly see where homes had been flooded.  Bridges were surrounded by dams that trees had made as they were washed down the river.  Fences had remains of leaves and debris all the way to the top of them showing that the water had been at least 4-5 feet deep in those areas.  I was able to get online and see the news coverage and the loss of life that these floods had taken, all the while being thankful that I was headed home, but feeling selfish that I was doing just that and so many others weren't able to just leave.  This was their home.  They were going to be dealing with the after effects for weeks to come.

I implore you to consider donating goods or money to people in these communities.  Many people have lost everything, and what's worse, they're under yet another flood watch again today.  These are people who are willing to help others even when they are being affected themselves--the very definition of what we should all be like.  We can continue to learn from camp--from Thursday's theme--to Serve Humbly.  They have already showed what it means to serve others.  Now we can do the same. They can use any help that you can provide.

Thursday, September 10, 2015

Choosing a Name: Rosalyn Eloise

Like most girls I spent a lot of time thinking about my future children's names when I was younger.  When I was about 6 or 7, I just knew I was going to have a girl (a boy was totally out of the question), and her name would be either Nicole or Michelle.  I adored those names.  As the years changed, so did my favorite names.  In middle school after doing some genealogy research, I stumbled upon and fell in love with Phoebe.  My friends didn't like that name because "it was old", so my search for the right name continued.  In high school I was set on the name Kali, and in college, it was Araby.  I never spent a whole lot of time thinking about names for boys because I just really wanted a girl.

Throughout our relationship, Derek and I would discuss baby names periodically.  It always happened that Derek would think of boy names while I thought of ones for girls.  I don't know if that's just something that's built into our DNA--that we associate more with one gender than the other because that's what we are, or because that's what is comfortable and familiar--or just what we preferred.  Derek would throw out names like Milo and Xander (or something like that).  Ones that I just really wasn't fond of.  And I would toss in Ellen and Emma.

When we found out we were pregnant, we excitedly considered various names.  I'd mention a few I liked while watching TV, and he'd text me his thoughts throughout the day.  We began a list of names including Emmett, Lane, Milo, and Asher; Ella, Bonnie, Piper, and Rosalyn.  Eventually we settled on Asher if we had a boy and Rosalyn if we had a girl.

Almost all of the predictions were for a boy (including my students' predictions), and although I somewhat secretly wanted a girl, I had resolved to the fact that I'd have to wait until the next baby because this one was a boy.  But around Valentine's Day, along with Derek, my mom, and my mother-in-law, we found out that we were expecting a GIRL!


We continued the next several months preparing for the little Miss, and finally welcomed her into this world 6 days after her due date.  Her name: Rosalyn Eloise Nesselrodt. 

I know if I were to go back to middle school, my friends would tell me it's an old name, but I love it.  Neither Rosalyn nor Eloise are family names (that I know of), but I think they fit her perfectly.  They're not the super common Sophia or Isabella, but they're also not the strange Tinlee or Ember.  Rosalyn comes from (I believe) three of Shakespeare's works, which is perfect for an English major like me, although I didn't think about this until later, and means beautiful rose

Rosalyn is my beautiful rose.  From a little bud in my tummy, she has grown into the incredible bloom that I am so blessed to have in my life.   I just can't wait to watch her grow and see what all life has in store for her.


Monday, September 7, 2015

Chalkboard Signs: Ashlee & Grant's Wedding!

Three years ago my principal texted me a few weeks before school started and said a new teacher was hired for the math position in our middle school. This isn't a conversation that typically occurs after new staff are hired, but my principal wanted me to meet this new teacher because we both lived in the same town.

Although I'm originally from the town in which I teach, I moved to a neighboring town after college (where my husband is from).  I commute the roughly 35-40 minutes to work every day even though I live about 2 seconds away from the high school in this town.  My principal knew I was interested in carpooling with other 'imported' teachers, so she sent me the number of this new teacher.

I'm kind of weird when meeting new people sometimes.  I get excited, but then anxiety begins to creep in and I start to imagine all of the possibilities of who they are and how much we won't get along. (This is dumb because there are few people I don't get along with.)  I left her number there in my text messages and told myself I'd call her sometime before school.

Luckily Ashlee hunted me down on Facebook and sent me a message because most likely I would've left her number in my phone and waited until school started to meet. (I can be a bit of a terrible person.)

We met for lunch one day before school began, and I'm so glad we did because I love her! This will be my third year working with Ashlee and carpooling with her and our friend Katie who teaches in the elementary school.  I dislike the days when I drive alone because our conversations are greatly missed.  We get a chance to share recipes, vent about whatever happened during the day, talk about the funny moments we had with our kids, and talk about our personal lives.

This post wasn't meant to share my "origin story" with Ashlee, but to share a piece of her wedding.  Shortly after we began the school year that first year together, Ashlee got engaged.  Earlier this summer she finally married the love of her life in a beautiful rustic barn wedding.  Seriously, it was one of the most beautiful weddings I've ever attended.

Prior to the wedding, Ashlee asked if I would create some chalkboard signs for her.  I was a bit skeptical of my skills and worried that they wouldn't be at all what she wanted, but I told her I'd give it a shot.  Thanks to Pinterest, they didn't turn out so bad! :)  I don't take credit for the design of any of the signs below.  Seriously, I found the designs from ideas on Pinterest.




Derek "joked" that he wanted to skip the ceremony and go straight to the reception to eat!



Ring bearer sign: side 1

Ring bearer sign: side 2

There were a few more that I didn't have a chance to capture, but I think all of them turned out pretty good!




Isn't it beautiful?!

This table was filled with delicious goodness for the reception.


An ice cream float bar!





Such a wonderful, godly couple!


Derek has a thing about angrily eating cupcakes.

The carpooling gals! (Please excuse the fact that I look as large as a house... This is one of about 3 pictures I have at 9 months pregnant.)
I wish Ashlee and Grant nothing but the best! I know that they'll have a long, happy, and beautiful marriage! :)

Wednesday, July 8, 2015

A Colorful Nursery


Since we moved into our home in October 2013, the spare room beside our bedroom has served as a "catch all" room, a "tv room", a spare bedroom, and now a nursery.  Almost as soon as we converted it into a guest bedroom in October 2014, we found out that we were pregnant and were going to need to change it again.  For months, we were asked how we were going to decorate the nursery--what theme and what colors we were going to use.  And for months, we were regularly shown disappointment and anxiety when we said we had no idea how we were decorating and that we weren't worried about it.  It wasn't until May 2015 that we finally began to move furniture out to prepare for the nursery.  I don't feel like I'm very savvy in the decorating department, and neither of us could really see the point of moving everything out of the room when we didn't have anything to put back in it, such as a crib.  One evening my dad called to tell us he was bringing the crib over that they had purchased for us, so we started to clean out the room and prepare for the nursery.

Around this same point, we were receiving more and more questions about how we were going to be decorating, and I began to feel a little anxiety.  I'm generally a pretty easy-going person, but when faced with a particular question over and over that I don't have an answer for, I start to feel pressured to come up with an answer that  I think will be appeasing to those asking.  I settled on a color scheme: coral and navy.  I found some curtains that I liked and began to look for ideas on Pinterest. Although I thought this would be helpful, it only led to more anxiety.  (Remember when I said I'm not a very savvy decorator?)  All of the crib bedding I found that I liked averaged $300, and when looking online, all of the pictures look like they've come out of a magazine meaning it generally costs $$$ to get a similar look.  There's no way I'm spending $300+ on something that is bound to have a 2 am poop explosion all over.  I decided to stop trying to fit into the cookie-cutter Pinterest world of creating a picture perfect nursery and instead, just do whatever felt natural.  For me, that's lots of colors and personal/family touches included throughout.  Here's a peak.




Although we bought a glider, Derek wanted to keep his recliner too.  It'll be perfect for midnight feedings from Daddy. :)

The canvas print was the first item I purchased for the nursery.  The various colors in it served as my inspiration for the rest of the nursery.  Below, the framed button elephant was a handmade gift from a dear friend, and the crocheted bear was a handmade gift from one of my students.  She's inheriting the jewelry box from my (and maybe my mom's?) childhood.
This isn't finished yet.  I'll be hanging something on the wall; I just haven't quite figured out what yet.  The boppy & diaper bag are ready for our trip to the hospital!

He doesn't look like it here, but Baxter loves the nursery.  He and JellyBean spend most of their time in here now.

I love this wall so much because it's so personal to us.  The hanging dresses are from when my sister and I were babies.  The framed elephant drawing was created by one of my students this year, and the "R" was painted by another student.  The embroidered duck is from Derek's childhood, and the wooden car was made by my dad.  (He's incredibly talented at making wooden toys.)  Finally, the Mario and Princess Peach are the cake toppers from our wedding.

It has taken a while to get everything where I want it, and I'm sure we will be making many changes along the way.

Over the weekend, we inherited all of my niece's hand-me-down clothes, which is awesome (thank you Mandy), but was also overwhelming.  I spent two days sorting (thank you for the help, Momma), washing, folding, and organizing clothes, and finally put our dresser to good use.  It took a while to figure out how best to sort items, but I think I'm satisfied with the results.  <<This is where my sister starts to make fun of me :) >>


Starting from the top and moving left to right, we're organized by size & type of clothing.


I've seen many instances where drawer organizers have been purchased for items like this, but I just can't justify spending the money on things like that.  Will our drawers always be this organized? No. Is it a good starting point? I think so!  At least when I ask Derek to grab something specific, he'll have the basic understanding of where to find that item instead of just throwing clothes around the room.































Do you have other suggestions for decorating or sorting baby items?  I'd love to hear them! :)



In case you're wondering where we purchased certain items, you can find the list below with links to the webpages.

Glider: Amazon
White Dresser: Walmart
Shag Rug: Walmart
Changing Pad: Walmart
Changing Pad Covers: Walmart
Crib: Target
Crib Sheet: Target
Curtains: Walmart
Picture Frames: Ikea
Diaper Bag: Amazon (Vera Bradley)